6.01.2009

From now on...

Today when i lie on my bed..
i think bout 1 problem tat facing by the student have car in Kampar..
that person might be myself or others..
actually what is the purpose the student need car?

Why not just for convenient them self in the Kampar area that lack of public transport?
but sometime need to act like a driver fetch this 1 fetch that 1 at railway station or bus stop..
not only that,
sometime still need borrow car for others..
Is that must the car owner do this kind of things to convenient others by reduce their own time or freedom or borrow out their vehicle to others by keep worrying bout their property..?

If the driver refuse to do such kind of 'SERVICE' , someone will also comment on their 'BEHAVIOR'..
such as 'dont know why the driver got car but not use? need car for what ? just put there like the showroom? '

HEY !!!
OTHERS ! keep you mouth shut ! The car is belong to the owner... why you comment so much?
why dun you buy a car for yourself without make others into trouble?

Maybe in the future i will be the others to comment the car owner..
but in fact,
this is what in my brain now..
i think next time i should say 'NO' to others....
yes.. i must do so to make me live in simple life...



P/s:
Advise to myself: ' think carefully before you write and post the blog..'
hahaha... :P

12 comments:

Wingz K 说...

I just can said different people have different situations... But I believe you can solve this kind of problem.....keep going...

Jacho 说...

haha~
calm down~~
juz say no to others that wan borrow ur car lar~~
ignore them~ haha
is ur car, not their car~ hehe~

DesTomHew 说...

haha ...
act im facing such problems wif u ...
but ill not same wif u ...
no ppl can force me do wat i dun1 ...
ill not care them ...
caz ds my right 2 do it !!!
at d end they mah fren bac wif me !!!
human is 现实 de ...
if dun1 2 do it ...
no ppl can force u de !!!
gambateh la ... ^^

~~Nick @ Ting Jie~~ 说...

Dear Alan~

Me too!!! What in your mind is totally what im facing...
At the beginning, car is really convenient for my life in KL. But u start to have alots of friends that will take you for granted... not only wasting time to be a drive, but money as well for the petrol. As a students, still have to waste extra $$$ for other's transport! What kind of theory is this...
Im willing and happy to be a driver for those REAL friendss, but for those who just take me for granted, pls go away. Pls think on our point of view... HMPH~~

Alan, thx for writing this blog and giving me a chance to explode

arwen woon 说...

有时我很疑惑究竟要不要给朋友钱..
很像我有些朋友就指明她要收钱..
威宁载我们那么多次..
我们久不久也会给钱他..
可是..我不知道要不要给钱给偶尔载我的人..
之前我有给..
就像文梁...我有给他..
可是啊SA和其他朋友都说..
我每次说钱...感觉不当他们是朋友...
可是不给又很像不好意思..
因为他们没有义务载我的..
其实站在你们载人立场..
我究竟要不要给钱的...

Mr.Dunno a.k.a Alan Kai 说...

woon:
Actually u cant said like tat, it is depend on the situation.
For example, if we all hang out together, if the distance not too far, den i dun think it need to paid. But if the distance is long, may b we can shared the petrol fees wf the driver.
Actually tis problem i already facing for bout 1 years..
Is tat necessary for me to fetch other go around here and there?? i keep asking myself...
if i do not fetch others, will they dun wan b fz wf me..?? i knw tis taught may b wil be a bit childish...
But sometime when you not willing to go out, but u stil need for going out because other need to out and they dun hv transport...
what you all think about the solution??
i have been live in this kind of situation for several times...
anybody can help me get back my freedom..??
or i should jz move to the place that have the public transpot and send my car back?
i know sometime some people wil said that you car not a good car or wat... i admit that..
i not from a rich family, and i am jz a student..
car is jz for CONVENIENT my self !!!! not for you!!!

arwen woon 说...

那你就拒绝啦..
最你自己!!!
那么平时你载我们去喝茶时..
有没有麻烦到你??

有时要宁每天载..
我真的不好意思..
而且我们很久很久才给他钱..
上次给时..比没在..哈哈...

我反而不喜欢别人载我..
宁愿自己走路都好...
因为我朋友告诉过我..
人家没有义务载你..

如果你真的不能载..
你坦白对他们说..
如果他们当你是朋友..
一定不会远离你的!!

就很像我最近都没和啊SA他们出去了..
做这个决定前..
我很怕因为我不和你们出去..
你们会生气..
结果你们都好:)
明白我的处境..
也没有逼我出了..

所以这就是朋友..
就如啊SA说朋友是不会计较的:)

Mr.Dunno a.k.a Alan Kai 说...

Woon:
Agree wf you...
actually we know you are busy for your things too..
thx 4 ur support..

arwen woon 说...

actually i am not busy...
is my parent problems...haiz..
when u back muz find me go yum cha..
coz i want gv birthday present and souvenir to 2..
seem ur birthday passes long time already...
still not gv u then will not good..

Mr.Dunno a.k.a Alan Kai 说...

nevermind la..
got heart enuf..
thx you...

Jacho 说...

yaya~ got gift better lar hor~
Mr dunno? izit? hehe~

DesTomHew 说...

不是拉
给我呢
像你酱
对我来讲是很顺路的
因为都不用怎样麻烦去载你嘛
这样我是很乐意地免费载你

可是
我那班人
放了学
就要兜个大圈载他们
将会耽误别人的时间叻
这还好
一两次都算了
过后还很客气得上你车叻
这真气咯
好像签了合同似的

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